Betty J. Oiler

November 28, 1935 ‒ October 25, 2010

Ashley, Ohio

Betty Jane Oiler 74 of Ashley, Ohio formerly from Newark, Ohio. Passed away on October 25, 2010 at 6:45 AM after battling Alzheimers /Dementia. Betty passed away at home where she lived with her daughter Melody, son-in-law Mike, grandson Adam and granddaughter Nicole. Born November 28, 1935 in Coffeyville, KS to Elmer & Francis (Nance) Gruber. Retired cook/housekeeper. Former member of Northside Church of Christ in Newark. Betty was a loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Survived by 3 daughters: Melody (Robert “Mike”) Lusher of Ashley, OH, Kim Day of Newark, Tammey (Rick) Wemmer of Newark and one son Tim of Heath, OH; grandchildren Chasity (Steven), Adam, Nicole, Paul (Jenny), Scott, Crystal, Tim Jr., Justin (Tiffanni), Ashley, Tyler, Leah & Courland; great-grandchildren Hayden, Emily, Brittanni, Jacob, Alex, Devin, Grace, Carl Jr., Brea, Justin Jr. & Davin; sisters Alberta Johnson of KS, Alleen Boyles of KS, Nettie Day of IL and Vivian Griffin of Pataskala; and her twin brother Bob of Mt. Vernon. A special thanks to Dr. Kevin Haney of Smith Clinic, Marty McCurdy R.N. with hospice, Jeff Smith R.N. and Jennifer Beck with Home Reach Health, and Pastor Dwight Cimino for their kindness, support and compassion. Special friend Patricia “Patty” Brown of Ashley, OH. Betty was preceded in death by her parents, 5 brothers, and 1 sister. The family will receive friends on Friday, October 29, 2010 from 4-8 PM at Westfield Community Church, 880 Co. Rd. 21 in Westfield, OH where funeral services will be held Saturday, October 30, 2010 at 11 AM with Pastor C. Dwight Cimino officiating. Final resting place will be in Westfield Cemetery. Rodman Neeper Funeral Home, Ashley Chapel is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences may be expressed and memories shared by visiting